Bringing comfort and connection:
John’s Home Care Journey
When John Briscoe lost his wife seven years ago, his daughters quickly realised just how much she had done for him. Suddenly, simple daily tasks like cooking and managing household chores became overwhelming. As John, now in his 80s and living with dementia, adjusted to life without his wife, his family faced a difficult decision – how to ensure he received the care he needed while still maintaining his independence.
With three of his four daughters living in Sydney and one in Port Stephens, the family explored their options. While one daughter initially suggested residential care, the family ultimately chose a Home Care Package so John could stay in his home in Salamander Bay for as long as possible. With guidance from Harbourside’s caring team, they navigated the My Aged Care system, starting with CHSP funding before progressing to a Level 2 package. A year ago, as John’s needs increased, he was approved for a Level 4 package.
The difference has been life changing. Though John can no longer drive and has few social connections in Salamander Bay, his care package has helped him stay engaged and independent. He now visits the Harbourside Seniors Hub at Fingal Bay twice a week, where he enjoys socialising – something he was once reluctant to do, as his wife had mostly been the instigator of social opportunities. “At first, he was shy and didn’t want to go and was even reluctant to receive a home care package,” says his daughter Carole Fedczyna. “But now he absolutely loves it.”
Daily support from home care staff ensures John starts his day with a nutritious breakfast and assistance getting dressed. In the evenings, they check in again. Wednesdays are for grocery shopping with his support worker, and a cleaner visits fortnightly to help with household tasks. Even John’s beloved dog benefits – care staff help manage the pet’s medication.
For his daughters, knowing their dad is cared for brings peace of mind. “It means we can spend quality time with him when we visit rather than just doing chores,” Carole shares. The family also appreciates the personal touch from Harbourside staff— one of John’s carers, Jason, regularly sends photos and even troubleshoots phone issues if needed.
A recent highlight for John was a special trip to the Newcastle Show with other Home Care clients to celebrate his birthday – an experience that left him beaming. “He was chuffed,” Carole says.
For families considering home care, Carole has one piece of advice: “Do it. It’s peace of mind. The staff are wonderful, and they keep you informed. It’s especially reassuring for families who don’t live nearby.”
John’s story is a testament to the power of home care – helping him maintain his independence, stay socially connected, and continue living a life filled with small but meaningful moments of joy.